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For anyone who is wondering: “What is the point of writing so many question marks?” I would like to congratulate and thank you. With such a simple statement you have thus proven yourselves to be members of a worryingly dying breed.

I am of course, referring to the increasingly rare breed of people who have, after years of learning, trials, errors, tears and blind faith…discovered, the question mark.

Many of you might scoff at this contention that there are people who haven’t discovered the question mark but believe me…THEY EXIST. They are real,
I’ve seen them, I can picture them in my head and perhaps worst of all… I have spoken to them. The memories would make me shudder normally, but luckily I am wearing a jumper today so frankly there isn’t much point. For theatrical reasons, however, please just presume that I did just have a ridiculously hyperbolic shudder.

ANYWAY.

Example:

Person A: Hi how’s it going I think we met briefly last week at the pub. What’s your name?

Person B: Person B

A: Ah cool. I’m Person A.

B: Right.

A: So…how’s it going?

B: Yeah good thanks.

A: Have you been up to anything interesting recently?

B: Meh not so much.

A: Did you see that program on TV about window frames?

B: Yeah I did. It was really interesting.

A: I’m gutted I missed it, I was actually out at a gig at the time…

B: Too bad.

(cue mandatory awkward glancing around room for anyone better to talk to.)

NB This gesture is usually accompanied by either the swift consumption of any alcoholic drink to hand or the aggressive demanding of one to subsequently swiftly consume.

B: It reminded me of…………..(this then leads onto a lengthy – one-sided I hasten to add – discussion of person Bs fascinating summer holiday on the Isle of Skye in 1997 when there were many beautiful window frames. BLAH BLAH FUCKING BLAH.) Somehow person B has transformed into a non-stop tedium MACHINE, and you are stuck talking to them! How, HOW does this happen when they haven’t used a question mark in conversation since the age of 12 when they repeatedly asked their poor demented mother over and over again:

“Can I have a lolly?”

So yes. They exist, and they could be in a pub NEAR YOU.

Unfortunately I have discovered the hard way that there is no clear cut way to avoid these menaces. I personally award myself 5 points every time I ask a question. 5 points in my “you’re a superior human being chart” that is of course.

You could if you are feeling dangerous try and launch a counter attack. That is, give them a taste of their own medicine and only talk to THEM in statements. I advocate using this technique with extreme caution however. You don’t want to dance in the face of temptation for too long and go over to the dark side… There are quite a lot of them out there and maybe some of them found their way there without intending to. They will however, never know. Why? Because they never ask ANY FUCKING QUESTIONS of course.

The beginning of the example was an insight into the other dangerous type of conversationalist. That is those who only talk in statements. They too, are on the loose but I shall save my rant about them for another time.